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Rape is not a new evil to our society. But the acute issue with this evil is we are still unable to find its solution. Rape is a metaphor and is not just limited to sexual harassment. Whether the society is of rural area or of urban area, children, either girls or boys are vulnerable to atrocities and manipulation of hypocrite minds.
Children easily repose faith in others. They
don’t doubt much. Similarly, there are people, especially from rural
background, who are of giving nature and tend to think everyone alike, are
prone to (mis)judge the tactics of a shrewd mind. Here, comes the violation of
humanity, the maltreatment of emotions, the plunder of faith, and the death of
life. Rape is not just limited to body, it passes venom to the mind that
paralyses the whole system of thinking. Young boys and many simple minded men are also prone to rapes and domestic violence but no one notices them too.
A person who is a parent, grandparent, mentor or a guide when invests so many emotions in his or her ward/child to make the environment conducive, unknowingly reposes faith and for that person, the complete universe revolves around his/ her child with the Faith added abundantly. Now it is up to the child, what he or she has imbibed from the surroundings and the material that he or she is focusing on that will determine his/her life choices and Choice is what matters the most. When a child chooses a path, he or she knows the consequences because God has gifted everyone conscience and if in the future he or she achieves downfall or peace, it is all because of the choices.
One reason of victim's breakdown is rape and other is response of the family and society towards the victim after her abduction.Less support or no support of the family weaks the person, in case she loses her tendency and step towards death. But if every parent support her child as Dr. Primrose did in "The Vicar Of Wakefield", indeed every girl stands strong like Olivia (daughter of Dr.Primrose) and starts a new life.
ReplyDeletewe need to have people who are more self dependent and strong. no body is a judge of others' life.
Deletesometimes external support helps the victim to recover early. Almost every person needs other person who support him/ her bad time. Sharing and Supporting gives more relief to the victim. That's my observation may be it is different for others.
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